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Nothing shreds your emotions and taps you out physically like the turmoil of divorce. All the pieces of your life are turned upside down, your finances, housing, healthcare, and your kids are all dramatically affected. Now add Christmas and New Years, parties, family you don’t want to see, friends of your ex, credit card bills… seems like a recipe to make you want to pull your hair out. You’re feeling sad disoriented and broke and now have to go full steam and hang out with cheery people from intact families. Ugh.

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5 TIPS FOR SURVIVING THE HOLIDAYS DURING DIVORCE THE CLEARSKY WAY

Divorce is the perfect incubator for parental alienation syndrome. But what is parental alienation syndrome? One definition is that the dysfunctional parent systematically chips away at the child’s secure attachment to the functional parent. In this definition it’s considered child abuse as child is pulled away from a loving person who provides psychological health and security to the dysfunctional parent.

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I LOST MY CHILD: PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME IN DIVORCE

Divorce is the perfect incubator for parental alienation syndrome. But what is parental alienation syndrome? One definition is that the dysfunctional parent systematically chips away at the child’s secure attachment to the functional parent. In this definition it’s considered child abuse as child is pulled away from a loving person who provides psychological health and security to the dysfunctional parent.

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WHY DIVORCE CAN BE FOR THE BEST

  WHY DIVORCE CAN BE FOR THE BEST Divorce is horrible. Anyone who’s been through it knows this as fact. Divorce seems to never go away. It infests every area of our life. However, divorce can be almost like a surgical procedure. A necessary step to restore health...

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ADDICTION DURING DIVORCE

The divorced population is a high-risk population. A high-risk for addictions, illness, emotional problems, you name it, divorce makes living and coping difficult. Divorce is a perfect breeding ground for addictions. Think about it. You lose many if not all the anchors in your life. The loss and stress quotient is off the charts. You’re being is shaken to the core. Dramatic changes in your identity, your circle of friends, loss of the family home, living arrangements, the financial tsunami, alimony, child support, trying to be strong for your kids, can make you feeling empty and you long to fill the void with something pleasurable.

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DIVORCE DETOX

As your marriage becomes more and more unraveled, men and women adopt patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving that are coping strategies. Whether or not they’re good ones, is something else entirely. We’ll take a quick look at the three elements required to get ourselves back on track. Our thought life, our feelings and their resulting behavior.

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